Three Common Wedding Outfit Woes No One Talks About (And How to Fix Them Before They Happen)
- Kendra W. Houston
- Jan 13
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 14
Written by Kendra W. Houston | Artist & Fashion Designer
Kendra specializes in creating one-of-a-kind clothing items by hand-painting custom designs on them. She works with clients looking for something truly unique to wear for their weddings, charity galas, and other special occasions.
Some friends were showing me their recent wedding photos...
"Oh yeah," one of them said as we got to the posed Groom + Groomsmen pictures, "doing these took FOREVER because our boutonnieres kept falling off. Ruined some otherwise great shots and we kept having to reset. Such a pain!"
This isn't the first time I've heard this complaint, either. In fact, it's up there on my "things people say bothered them at their wedding (but didn't know to think about when planning)" list. Things that I've found solutions for!
Here's the scoop:
In my years of custom hand-painting items for people's big events, I've had a number of wedding projects that (at the time) felt like solutions for small pains, but turned out to be big-impact "hacks" with universal appeal.
These clever uses of paint create the same effect as their more traditional alternatives, but with some helpful and beautiful benefits you might not have thought of. Here are three of my favorites...
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1.The pain: Dealing with annoying suit accessories
The hack: a hand-painted suit detail, instead of a boutonniere or pocket square.
The benefits:
Zero stress: nothing to fall off or get damaged on the big day (or take time putting on just right).
You can go as large and elaborate as you want without adding weight.
Adds permanent flair--with less maintenance or storage--for the same cost.
Anything special can be painted--you don't need to be limited to flowers or patterns!
A cute way to include your favorite animal or pet?
2.The pain: Lace is so pretty, but... has its issues
The hack: hand-painted faux lace instead of real lace
The benefits:
Won't snag, tear, or degrade with time. SO MUCH more durable and lasting overall.
Not itchy--perfect for individuals who love the look of lace but want a better sensory experience.
More customizable designs than even the most specialty fabrics.
Luxe paints can shimmer in a way that gives your piece unique dimension. Looks magical!
The most popular is pearlescent silver on white, but any hue or effect can be achieved with faux lace.
A beautiful way to include your flowers or theme in your wedding outfit
Unlike with fabric choices, custom hand-painted means anything is possible. Have a very specific combination of flowers? Is there a special animal, place, or even words you'd love to see incorporated? This is where we can make it happen!
3.The pain: It's hard to make my ceremony feel unique
The hack: an accessory at your ceremony that's hand-painted
Think a ring-bearer pillow, chair bows, hand-fasting ribbon, or bouquet accessory.
The benefits:
Add individuality or more significance to your event, at the time it matters most.
On a piece you're holding, you can sneak in something sentimental for just the two of you.
Allows your imagination to run free! Think beyond the usual ceremony design ideas (like flowers).
Many are easy to frame or otherwise use/display as a keepsake work of art after the big day
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It's hard to beat wearing an actual one-of-a-kind artwork on your wedding day, particularly if it's made specifically for you. Getting a custom hand-painted piece might be the special touch your outfit has been waiting for. Items can take months to finish, so let's get the conversation started today!
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About Kendra
Kendra W. Houston is a visual artist and fashion designer who specializes in customizing clothing items by painting one-of-a-kind designs on them by hand.
She is based out of Pawtucket, Rhode Island, and appreciates contributing to the slow fashion movement in one of the birthplaces of American industrial textile mills. She works out of a cozy home studio, assisted by her pet rabbit Tiverton.
Kendra's designs are detailed and immersive, often reflecting things that hold special significance to the wearer. The name of her brand, The Casual Reply, comes from a line in a John Denver song: “talk to God and listen to the casual reply.”
Each one of her items is a handcrafted work of fine art that is nonetheless intended to be used and worn as an entirely functional clothing item. Continuing and meaningfully adding to the story of a garment using unconventional, personal themes and designs is a source of true joy for Kendra in pursuing this calling.
She regularly participates as a featured designer in charity fashion shows as well as juried art events throughout New England.
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